- Conflict is inevitable but drama is a choice.
- Romans 12:18 - “If it is possible, as far as it depends on YOU, be at peace with EVERYONE!”
- it is never too late to become the person you were meant to be.
- Peace makers NOT peace fakers, absolutely not a peace breaker
- Conflict is required in any relationship.
- Jesus is your Guide, not just a good idea
- We are all very good at noticing others faults
4 huge ideas to remember on fixing relationships of all kinds, friendships, relationships, mentors etc.
1. I will get back to, not back at.
- 2 Corinthians 5:18-19
2. I will own MY slice of the blame pie.
- we're all jerks
- “Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?” (Jesus in Matthew 7:3)
3. I will make the first move, regardless of who moved away first.
- Matthew 5:23-24
- I don’t want anything from you, I want something FOR YOU- peace, wholeness, reconciliation.
4. I will keep the door open and the welcome mat out.
- What do you do when someone is willing to talk about you, but not talk to you? Don't give up. Keep trying.
-Romans 12:18 - Jesus walked into hurt, to begin healing.
